• phdepressed@sh.itjust.works
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    8 days ago

    I’m certainly not justifying it, just trying to explain it. Have to understand the opposing reasons in order to figure out how to best deal with it.

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      8 days ago

      Oh, lol. You were trying to explain it in the most dumbed down, incorrect, armchair wannabe psychologist way?

      You didn’t answer my question. Are you in the right community?

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      8 days ago

      You were trying to explain why men make rape jokes?

      Or were you trying to explain why some men enjoy rape?

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        8 days ago

        Why some men enjoy rape and why they feel comfortable making rape jokes. Its not that separate of a thing. Power fantasy media and fantasy being removed from reality make people feel comfortable about treating it lightly rather than with the seriousness it deserves.

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          7 days ago

          When in history has rape ever been taken seriously? When husbands were allowed to rape their wives?

          This is one of the dumbest explanations I’ve ever heard.