On one hand I understand showing empathy and highlighting that people might be going through mental issues, abuse. However laziness and lack personal responsibility should always be considered as possible factors as well.
you missed the cultural memo, in 2026 you’re considered abusive if you think personal responsibility is a thing. nothing is anyone’s personal fault, ever, anymore.
because people are need someone to blame. they can’t blame themselves.
hence why you have 30+ year old children who blame ‘society’ for their failings, or their parents, or a ANYONE but themselves.
and if you suggest hey… maybe you can learn and work and fix these things… they don’t say ‘oh yeah i will do that’.
they go ‘fuck you YOU HAVE NO EMAPTHY AND ARE A HORRIBLE PERSON’.
because… their entire identity and meaning in life is being a irresponsible piece of shit person who blames everyone else.
On one hand I understand showing empathy and highlighting that people might be going through mental issues, abuse. However laziness and lack personal responsibility should always be considered as possible factors as well.
you missed the cultural memo, in 2026 you’re considered abusive if you think personal responsibility is a thing. nothing is anyone’s personal fault, ever, anymore.