You know what isn’t a problem with privilege? Using that privilege to project the voices of the un-privileged. Speaking truth to power.
Damn right. And why more cis white men need to show up at Pride. And Women’s Marches. And BLM. A real man isn’t one who punches down, it’s one who extends an open hand.
they wont, even the ones in non-conservatives areas have tendancy towards conservative behaviors towards POC, especially in places that are gentrifying, most likely they are transplants from more white only states, conservative areas. those cish white men that have grown up with minorities had no issues with them, but those grown up with all white communities/ mostly bring tolerance to a point when they move to more progressive areas, and seen them freak out or clutch thier pearls when evena minority even approaches them.
A real man isn’t one who punches down, it’s one who extends an open hand.
A bit off topic, but I get annoyed when I see statements like this because it always comes from the same type of people who whine about the patriarchy and get mad when someone talks about being a “proper” woman.
You can’t be against sexism when you yourself are sexist. Masculinity isn’t defined by your subjective beliefs. Stop trying to shame men for who they are because of your misguided personal standard. There’s no such thing as a “real” man because all men are real.
Self-proclained “real men” define themselves by their masculinity. I’m merely trying to change their definition of masculinity, because I think that’s easier than changing them directly.
You’re no different than the alpha male grifters as you harbor the same flawed mentality. Masculinity is not a set of expectations, it’s literally just the behavior of men. Any behavior exhibited by any man is masculine by definition. This idea of a “real” man is manipulative bullshit to try to shame men for having emotions and individuality.
Damn right. And why more cis white men need to show up at Pride. And Women’s Marches. And BLM. A real man isn’t one who punches down, it’s one who extends an open hand.
they wont, even the ones in non-conservatives areas have tendancy towards conservative behaviors towards POC, especially in places that are gentrifying, most likely they are transplants from more white only states, conservative areas. those cish white men that have grown up with minorities had no issues with them, but those grown up with all white communities/ mostly bring tolerance to a point when they move to more progressive areas, and seen them freak out or clutch thier pearls when evena minority even approaches them.
A bit off topic, but I get annoyed when I see statements like this because it always comes from the same type of people who whine about the patriarchy and get mad when someone talks about being a “proper” woman.
You can’t be against sexism when you yourself are sexist. Masculinity isn’t defined by your subjective beliefs. Stop trying to shame men for who they are because of your misguided personal standard. There’s no such thing as a “real” man because all men are real.
Self-proclained “real men” define themselves by their masculinity. I’m merely trying to change their definition of masculinity, because I think that’s easier than changing them directly.
You’re no different than the alpha male grifters as you harbor the same flawed mentality. Masculinity is not a set of expectations, it’s literally just the behavior of men. Any behavior exhibited by any man is masculine by definition. This idea of a “real” man is manipulative bullshit to try to shame men for having emotions and individuality.