Columbia University senior Emma Sulkowicz, 21, says she was raped in her own bed at the beginning of her sophomore year. This week, two years after the alleged assault, Sulkowicz, a visual-arts major, has made a promise to carry her mattress around campus every day as part of her senior thesis. It is, she says, a symbol of the burden sexual-assault survivors carry with them every day.

“The act of carrying the mattress from inside my room out into the light has mirrored the way my life has changed, as I’ve brought my personal story out into the light,” Sulkowicz told TIME. “This project is a way to heal one of the most difficult things that happened to me. As I will build muscle and get stronger, hopefully I will also build emotional strength.”

Sulkowicz started the performance-art project on Tuesday, and she said she is determined to continue carrying the mattress wherever she goes — to class, the library, the gym — as long as her alleged rapist is still on campus. That means her project could last until graduation day in May 2015 — unless her alleged assailant is either expelled or chooses to leave the school. Last year, Sulkowicz and two other women reported the same person to the university. All three cases were dismissed.

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    I have an idea about the Wikipedia page I read. That is what I replied to. I also have an opinion about due process, which I am very well aware of.

    You tried to pull some other case into it that I wasn’t even talking about and now you try to accuse me of having no idea about the entire discussion before that?

    Are you deliberately trying to make yourself look like a fool? You really couldn’t do a better job if you tried.

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      Are you deliberately trying to make yourself look like a fool? You really couldn’t do a better job if you tried.

      Says the person who stalked me to push that I’m a MAGA psyop. I don’t attach any weight to any of your opinions.

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        Stalked? Where? Please enlighten me with your definition of stalking. You’re leaving multiple comments to my one that wasn’t even a reply to you.

        to push that I’m a MAGA psyop

        Don’t tell me you actually bought that, Velma? That would be hilarious.

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              Yeah you were pushing it multiple times. That doesn’t mean I believed your trolling attempt. Do you routinely struggle with reading comprehension?

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                I do not. Nor am I now.

                Here are the 13 possible meaning of the word “push”

                1. to apply steady force to (something) in order to move it

                2. to thrust (one’s way) through something, such as a crowd, by force

                3. to apply oneself vigorously (to achieving a task, plan, etc)

                4. (tr) to encourage or urge (a person) to some action, decision, etc

                5. to be an advocate or promoter (of)

                  to push for acceptance of one’s theories

                6. (tr) to use one’s influence to help (a person)

                  to push one’s own candidate

                7. to bear upon (oneself or another person) in order to achieve more effort, better results, etc

                  she was a woman who liked to push her husband

                  1. (tr) to take undue risks, esp through overconfidence, thus risking failure

                    to push one’s luck

                  2. (intr) to act overconfidently

                8. sport to hit (a ball) with a stiff pushing stroke

                9. informal (tr) to sell (narcotic drugs) illegally

                10. (intr; foll by out, into, etc) (esp of geographical features) to reach or extend

                  the cliffs pushed out to the sea

                11. (tr) to overdevelop (a photographic film), usually by the equivalent of up to two stops, to compensate for underexposure or increase contrast

                12. slang to be dead and buried

                Now I comprehend that you don’t mean that I was pushing a boulder or pushing drugs, and your anger makes it obvious you don’t think I was trying to help you, so I’m thinking more along the lines of #3 or #5. Now both of these, as I comprehend them, mean you take your task or theory quite seriously.

                Now I don’t want to push your buttons any further and English isn’t my first language, nor my second, but I do think I have a valid point here.

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                    Ah well, most was plagiarism anyway. A pity, you might have learned something.

                    Do you often struggle with longer sections? Is it because of your impaired reading comprehension?