Scrolling through the all feed and saw this post and genuinely cannot tell of this is satire or not.

    • wheezy@lemmy.ml
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      2 months ago

      Do you think that this means “no one can have a family that is two cis gendered people of the opposite sex raising children!”

      Or do you think its talking about the structures of society that force people into these gender roles and family structures to begin with?

      Answer. It’s the later one. Abolishing these structures, the incentives of and the dependencies they create, is part of abolishing patriarchy.

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        2 months ago

        I don’t know what the fuck it means. I’m glad at least one of us seems to perfectly understand it as something benevolent, but it’s a pretty poor way to say it.

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          2 months ago

          It’s not. You are just taking the definition of “Nuclear Family” in a vacuum. It’s like thinking “Abolish the Police” means that everyone that says that means they want anarchy, no state, and no form of law enforcement.

          It’s a general phrase that speaks to the current structures and their real material results.

          Your “idea” of the police or the nuclear family may be their definition on paper. An armed law enforcement. Or a single man, single women having kids.

          These are what they are defined as in a vacuum. They are not what they are in the context of state structures.

          The police are a defense of the capitalist class. Their job is first and foremost to protect private property and ensure class structures are not threatened.

          The Nuclear Family is a means of ensuring a women’s material conditions and her children are dependent on a man for his labor. That same structure ensures men are given the advantage of control in that family structure; while keeping them having no power in their work or their labor.

          These are what “leftist” are talking about when we are talking about abolishing these systems.

          It’s not about being benevolent. It’s about being educated in class struggle and patriarchy.

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            Good try but no this was not in any way shape or form a clear way to say this. If you want to say “relive us from the pressure to conform to the tired and oppressive ideal of the nuclear family” then say that. Not “abolish the nuclear family,” which is nonsensical on its face because it’s physically impossible. Your connotations of this term are not to be confused with its denotation, and that’s the beginning and end of this. Anyway, I can tell you think this is super important but you’re not convincing me and I really don’t have any more fucks to give here so farewell.