• NoSpotOfGround@lemmy.world
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      1 month ago

      Because I’ve never DMed anyone here, and a comment is not as embarrassing as a title… I was expecting an “Ok, fixed, thx”, and that would have been the end of it, as has happened in other threads. Instead we’re getting this public trial that’s awkward for everyone.

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        1 month ago

        What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.

        You don’t particularly like being called out publicly, do you?

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          1 month ago

          My initial comment was not an accusation or a “calling out”. It was a friendly tap on the shoulder.

          But you keep trying to steer this discussion onto an aggressive/accusatory tack, almost as if you want to perceive everything as some kind of a battle. That’s not how I like to view things, and you’re right, I don’t like it.

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            1 month ago

            You keep attributing aggressiveness and anger to my comments when I’m just being blunt.

            You did publicly call out OP and didn’t have enough grace to actually contribute to the discussion at hand.

            Now you know that if you’re actually trying to save someone public embarrassment, there are DMs you can utilize.