• blarghly@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    I mean, the problem is that you see women as a “them” that might be the source of a problem or that might have issues.

    If you really wanted to do this for the sake of the women you are teaching, you would focus on solving problems women typically encounter in the dating market. But the way you approach the topic shows you don’t really care about that. What you are actually fantisizing about is gathering all women together in a room and airing your grievances at them, and then all of them being shocked at how right you are and the terrible way they have acted, and then for them to all change their actions. You’re indulging in a fantasy where women validate your suffering and then solve your problems for you.

    And while indulging in these fantasies may feel good in the moment, it shows off a lot of bitterness (hence the downvoting) and doesn’t do anything to help you actually achieve anything you want.