Just saw this while scrolling on fedi being posted by this user: @Rasta@zeroes.ca

  • Wren@lemmy.today
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    Thanks for listening and owning up. I know it’s hard to break a habit when casual sexism becomes your norm.

    • strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      I honestly have a tendency to avoid taking responsibility and acknowledging when I’m wrong, but I’m trying to do better. Feel free to correct/confront me in the future.

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        I appreciate it. As someone who fought some hard rejection sensitivity issues, it feels way better to own up than to double down when I know I’m wrong.

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          Oh. I looked it up, and that sounds like me. I wonder if it’s connected to my social anxiety.

          Also, yeah, owning up does feel better than digging my heels in.

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            I learned it’s part of ADHD, which I have. Naming it has helped me acknowledge when it’s happening. Since anxiety goes hand in hand with conditions like ADHD, it might be related.

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                Depending on where you live a diagnosis can be very hard to get but worth it to start working toward sooner than later (fucking impossible with ADHD, I know.) You learn a lot along the way even if you don’t end up having it.

                The book Scattered Minds by Gabor Maté started my journey.