• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    It’s not like your removed comments disappear.

    Regardless, if users like you are the ones who don’t like me, I’m not losing sleep over it.

    It’s been a long time since I lived my life based on what others expect of me. My moral code is strong and I’m not ashamed of it.

    Have a good one out there.

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      1 day ago

      What, my removed comments that got mischaracterized and swarmed by people virtue signaling like you instead of actually engaging in a rational discussion and trying to understand what I was actually trying to say? Cause if you could see the full context, which you can’t, you would see that what I was saying wasn’t transphobic at all.

      And that string of “banned for being transphobic” was all from one mod, on a series of comms that I’ve never participated in, over the aforementioned conversation on a different comm. And that mod was clearly someone like you who cares more about virtue signaling than rational discussion.

      After all, I called you a woman, didn’t I? I used your preferred pronouns. That doesn’t seem like something a transphobe would do, does it? I’ve never once attacked you for being trans. I’ve called you out for being self-righteousness and in many cases bigoted, and I’ve seen other trans people call you out for the same shit too.

      But whatever, don’t lose sleep. I wouldn’t want you to damage your health. Just, when you wake up in the morning, take a look in the mirror and realize you’re just a human too, with human flaws, and you don’t get a pass on that just because of your marginalized status.

      Anyone can be a bigot. If you don’t believe me, just look at Caitlin Jenner, Alice Weidel, Kanye West. It’s not exclusive to cishet white men. Remember that.

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              1 day ago

              Right, cause I’m gonna waste hours digging back through weeks worth of your comments just to find the one where you talked about being trans so I can prove something you and I both already know?

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                1 day ago

                I’m a cis woman and your insistence that you know better than me about my own gender is not helping you argue your case against being a transphobe.

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                  24 hours ago

                  Okay, it’s fine, you can gaslight me. You get a pass cause you’re a minority.

                  Maybe I should become a minority too so that I never have to admit when I’m wrong and can instead just feign outrage any time I’m called out on something 🤔 hmm, nah, I won’t cause I’m not a terrible person