30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.

    • treadful@lemmy.zipEnglish
      63·
      6 days ago

      Never would have expected a “30 something woman” to be behind that username.

      • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
        73·
        6 days ago

        I mean my husband and I have been sharing links to cumshot porn with each other for over a decade. But I get it. Not your average 30 something woman’s username 😆

            • protist@retrofed.comEnglish
              371·
              6 days ago

              Very frankly, this statement right here has me thinking about porn or sex addiction. If you don’t think it’s negatively affecting your life (relationships, employment, self-esteem, sexual fulfillment, etc), then you keep doing you (hehe). If you find you’re putting aside other meaningful activities on a regular basis to click the mouse, maybe take a deeper look at that pattern and consider talking with a sex-positive therapist

        • arcine@jlai.lu
          42·
          5 days ago

          Forgive me for asking, but would you be able to explain the appeal ? I’ve always been a little puzzled by this fetish, to be blunt it always seemed like a waste of a creampie x)

          • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
            3·
            4 days ago

            For me at least, it is all about how it looks when it shoots and how it looks and feels on skin, there is something very visceral about ropes of white liquid flying through the air and landing on skin. For me, a creampie is a waste of a good load.

        • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
          23·
          6 days ago

          A lot of my friends are very into the whole erotica thing. I am far too visual a person to spend a lot of time doing that, personally.

          • velma@sh.itjust.works
            112·
            6 days ago

            I never got into the bodice-ripper novels, but there’s definitely some literotica mixed in with visual porn in my preferences.

            Mostly visual though.

            It’s been nice to see that women who enjoy the written word have an avenue to be as horny as they like without as much judgment lately though haha

            • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
              14·
              6 days ago

              Agreed and sometimes, the right erotic story can be very very moistening. I remember reading some as a late teen and those images still appear sometimes when I fantasise

              • velma@sh.itjust.works
                52·
                6 days ago

                Moistening hahaha. I might copy that phrase!

                Also I can’t lie, knowing you’re a woman makes your posts that much hotter. Thanks! Haha

                • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
                  8·
                  6 days ago

                  And no lie, I’ve kind of always hoped that women looked at my posts, but never had confirmation, and now I do, so…moistening lol. So thank you.

          • WhoIzDisIz@lemmy.today
            62·
            6 days ago

            The conversations you’ve had with your coworkers to even know that make me wanna… come …work there, too!

      • quick_snail@feddit.nl
        21·
        5 days ago

        Women’s libido typically peak around 30, so usually when you find hypersexual women they’re in their 30s.

        • velma@sh.itjust.works
          32·
          5 days ago

          It can peak up into women’s mid-40s, not at 30. But you are correct, women in their 30s and 40s tend to be hornier.

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
        132·
        6 days ago

        I’ve appreciated your posts a time or two myself. I’d say my usual is every other day, but I’d also say you’re totally normal with your frequency as well.

        Women’s sex drives tend to rise as we age. Enjoy the ride!

        • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
          11·
          6 days ago

          The fact that another woman has appreciated something I’ve posted is incredibly awesome, and more than a little bit sexy, so thank your for sharing that. I can’t imagine my sex drive increasing much, well I can, but it would be crazy :)

          • velma@sh.itjust.works
            42·
            6 days ago

            Maybe yours will, maybe you got lucky with a real stable drive. It’s all a guessing game when it comes down to individuals!

            Your comments resonated with me, I’m not dissimilar to you honestly hahaha. Cum is hot!

            • CumshotCurators@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
              9·
              6 days ago

              I was not expecting any women to honestly reply, so to get a reply from a woman containing the words “Cum is hot” might be the most fantastic thing that has happened to me since my husband shared a link to something that made me insta-cum the other week. Thanks for your honest and open replies. Keep enjoying the white ropes, the idea of it is very sexy for me.