I’m all for any person practising whatever relationship style they want. What im against is using people to fulfill your needs/wants. Have fun, meet people, enjoy experiences, but please dont make people your experiments. You may enjoy “the chase”, but the long term effects on those individuals may have further impacts.
I won’t fully agree with all the other comments that OP is not a nice person for doing this. We all have our motivations, methods, and reasoning. That being said, considering the fact that other humans have feelings and desires helps to mitigate that main character syndrome.
I think it boils down to communication. If both parties understand the expectations in the relationship, then it is fine, and thats what this meme implies as well. However one party leading the other on, maybe playing the bf/gf role without wanting the commitment while the other wants full commitment is disingenuous imo.
I’m all for any person practising whatever relationship style they want. What im against is using people to fulfill your needs/wants. Have fun, meet people, enjoy experiences, but please dont make people your experiments. You may enjoy “the chase”, but the long term effects on those individuals may have further impacts.
I won’t fully agree with all the other comments that OP is not a nice person for doing this. We all have our motivations, methods, and reasoning. That being said, considering the fact that other humans have feelings and desires helps to mitigate that main character syndrome.
I think it boils down to communication. If both parties understand the expectations in the relationship, then it is fine, and thats what this meme implies as well. However one party leading the other on, maybe playing the bf/gf role without wanting the commitment while the other wants full commitment is disingenuous imo.