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  • GaMEChld@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldwork
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    19 hours ago

    Sure, you right, I didn’t mean to imply you need to be a member of a particular community to think there’s a logical point being made. Just meant to point out that there are interesting points being made scattered in every viewpoint.

    I guess my goal was to kind of show that all these groups at war with one another are kind of talking past each other without really communicating.

    And then I see them railing into the void about it as if that’s an attempt at communication, meanwhile those people don’t realize there are just as many people answering, but everyone is in echo chambers so the algorithm isn’t going to spoon feed it to them.

    They’d actively have to be looking for the answer in places that make them uncomfortable.



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    2 days ago

    I think Miaa is not talking about the literal rights they fought for, but largely a commentary on women collectively valuing financial independence from being a couple over more traditional couple based partnership.

    I’ve been watching the argument unfold on the traditionalist side but they aren’t great at articulating what they are trying to say. So it always looks like rage inducing over simplification.

    On the female TikTok side of the Internet, there’s a lot of sentiment from women expressing disdain for the idea of going 50-50 with a man, and a lot of preference for men that out earn them. That’s inconsistent from a financial independence mindset.

    Then you have the women like Miaa who were like, housewife is easier than ever with the technological innovations you already mentioned. ‘Why not just be a homemaker if guys appreciate that and are willing to take care of you?’

    Then the red pill guys are another party in the conversation, and they are saying things like, what women say they want and their actions don’t seem to be aligning and a lot of them are either done dating or at minimum have no intention of long term commitment. "Women say equality but not when the check comes. They want men to be open with their emotions but it gives them ‘the ick’. Men shouldn’t approach women in public because it’s creepy, but now the internet is flooded with women asking where men went and why they are being so effeminate. " That’s the kind of thinking I’m seeing in those circles.

    It’s a big mess! Do I have a fix? Nope, just commenting on the forest fire from my vantage point. I’m just thankful I’m not in the dating market.

    Hopefully it’s just whining from the vocal minorites that make all this content, and the majority of people are still balanced people that aren’t aspiring content creators and are basically happily living their lives so we don’t hear from them. Please, confirmation bias, be something good for a change. Be the fog obscuring the true good. 🤞