Statements like this are exactly why i STOPPED identifying as pan and stick to bi/queer now. How pretentious and judgmental to say pansexuals care abt personality while bisexuals only care about looks. It’s just more bi erasure.
Not gay enough for the gays
Not straight enough for the straights
Not bi enough for the pans
Bisexuals can like trans and NB people, I promise ;)
I’ve always understood it as pansexual being attracted to personalities and bisexual being attracted to physical attributes
Statements like this are exactly why i STOPPED identifying as pan and stick to bi/queer now. How pretentious and judgmental to say pansexuals care abt personality while bisexuals only care about looks. It’s just more bi erasure.
Not gay enough for the gays Not straight enough for the straights Not bi enough for the pans
Bisexuals can like trans and NB people, I promise ;)
You’re reading more into it than you need to.
All homo- and hetero-sexuals care about physical attributes too.
All pans I’ve met, doesn’t care about any physical traits.
I guess that does kind of align with my understanding, just in slightly more simplified terms!