I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

  • velma@sh.itjust.works
    24·
    5 days ago

    Yeah, which insults do I throw out most? I don’t name call hardly ever unless it’s to point out misogyny and even then it’s to call them a misogynist. I’m serious, feel free to go through my post history. You won’t find what you’re looking for there.

    I’m self aware enough to know that I am rude to men who do not respect women. I don’t deny that.

    I’ve seen a lot of comments that rub me the wrong way as well.

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
        25·
        5 days ago

        No, I hate sexist men who can’t respect a women’s only community.

        I hate men who rape.

        I hate men who insist on their viewpoint being the only correct one and waiving away women’s perspectives and views.

        That’s very different from hating all men.

          • velma@sh.itjust.works
            23·
            5 days ago

            What do you get out of this? Does it make you hard to needle at women? Does it get your rocks off to pick at outspoken women?

            Again, my post history would dispel this image who have built of me in your head if you ever bother to take a look. It feels better to hate me though, doesn’t it?

            • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
              22·
              5 days ago

              Reread the OP and tell me you are not behaving this exact way right now. You are completely insufferable. Chill out. Lol

              • velma@sh.itjust.works
                22·
                5 days ago

                I’m chill, I’m just replying to you lol

                You can’t answer some questions in return? What does this interaction do for you?

                • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
                  32·
                  5 days ago

                  I call out hypocrites when I see them and you are one of the prominent negative nancies of lemmy, when i saw your comment here i just laughed because you are one of the accounts OP is calling out

                  And I replied to you because I knew you would immediately start throwing insults at me, proving my point

                  • velma@sh.itjust.works
                    22·
                    5 days ago

                    Y’know to be fair I read through my comments here to see where I insulted you.

                    I didn’t find any insults.

                  • velma@sh.itjust.works
                    23·
                    5 days ago

                    Again, take a look at my post history. I’m quite positive to everyone except men who think they can punch down on women with no one saying anything.

                    I’ll fucking say something. I’m not dodging that and I’m not shying away from it. But I don’t initiate it.