I can’t say I never downvote anyone but I get into these comment chains from time to time where really no matter what I post whoever I’m talking to downvotes every response but I generally shy away from downvoting even things I dislike. I don’t want to fall into an echo chamber where all I see are only the things I agree with.

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    Everyone is dude, dude. I don’t care how they identify or what they are equipped with. Dude is neutral as heck.

    I know what you were speaking of, and I know those instances, at least some. Doesn’t change that we are not in a vacuum.

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      I’m not particularly fond of being called dude as a woman, but you just clearly stated you don’t care.

      I was simply clarifying what I was talking about specifically in my earlier comment. OP is throwing a fit for being downvoted and banned from the womensstuff community with this post.

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        Oh, and by the way, you are clearly caring about downvotes as you made sure to downvote my comments.

        It’s true. I don’t really care about you. I don’t know you and I will have forgotten what you wrote in five seconds. It doesn’t matter. I’m not here to hurt or insult you. I just don’t care enough.

        Be happy, feel free, block me if you want. It doesn’t matter.

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          Did I ever state that I personally don’t use downvotes?

          If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t come back and comment multiple times at me. Must’ve ruffled your feathers quite a bit by asking for the basic respect of not misgendering me.