Imagine your Limbs are shaking while orgasming. This is a fullbodyorgasm.

As far as i understand male people can only experience it anally, but even that requires training. Because it is so difficult to achieve, it feels impossible.

  • UnPassive@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    When you’re approaching the final moments before orgasm, relax your gooch/bridge/perineum. You’ll feel your approach instantly slow, but if you achieve orgasm anyway, it’ll be MUCH stronger and longer. It sort of slows the build up down, and results in a bigger O. Should only add around 30 seconds of delay - we’re not trying to edge all day. Sometimes riding the edge feels great, so stay there as long as you can, but make sure you fall over, instead of losing the orgasm.

    I used to wonder why my orgasms felt so different every time, but now they’re always really good. You might have to dance a few perineum flexes in, to get over the hill, but try to avoid many. 100% practice while masturbating while laying down. It’s super hard to have a fully relaxed perineum while thrusting. Also, try to make sure you’re really hard before relaxing your P muscles. Softer orgasms always are weaker for me.

    Advanced users may find there is a muscle you can flex in kinda in opposition to flexing your P muscles, but I’m finding it hard to explain… So start with the basics.

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    Estrogen did fucking wonders there Orgasms now are fucking mind blowing And long And I can sometimes do it more than once And the come down isn’t a cliff anymore, more of a gradual descent

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      I got poison ivy pretty bad one time, and discovered that very hot water in the shower directly on the rash is one of the best things I’ve ever felt. And it also completely stops the itch for like 12h.

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      6 days ago

      or vigorously rubbing your nose while in the shower, itching your inner sinus. you bleed for a day or two later but…

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    5 days ago

    it really has nothing to do with whether you’re male or female but more with your state of mind and whether you can relax deeply enough. which many men can’t because they’re in a perpetual mental state of being tersed up and not relaxing. but that’s a social issue, not a biological one.

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    7 days ago

    I really think that it’s possible for some men to have them, from my own experience as I uncontrollably tremble and shake my whole body sometimes, and that what many people see as full body orgasms have been skewed, as with many other things, via porn. I almost exclusively watch solo female having real orgasms for porn and you have to wade through so much fake bullshit, it was so popular for several years with cam girls who just spasmed like those fucking flailing tube man things. There are only a few, very few, videos of real orgasms like that and thousands upon thousands of fake “ooh, someone donated X amount so now I magically and immediately have a full body orgasm and spasm around like I’m being tasered”.

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      7 days ago

      No shade, but it may be hormones. I was pretty shocked to hear how the trans body changes when hormones are applied. It is really easy to assume that some of those changes are more permanent.

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        5 days ago

        I’m not trans though… No idea what have you that idea. I’m a supporter and go to many pro-lgbtq demonstrations, and if I could have chosen a biological gender I’d choose female but I have never taken hormones or done anything other than wearing make-up, nail polish, dresses abd skirts a few times. I’m fully comfortable with my body and gender.

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          I didn’t say you are. I was suggesting you may have a different hormonal make up than others.

          Many of us do. I wouldn’t survive without additional hormones at this point.

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    Male here, you totally can. I’ve had events where I had multiple orgasms back to back with no refractory as well as events with full body orgasms that make all my muscles twitch.

    I don’t know what the secret sauce is, I just try and enjoy the moment and I appreciate when I do get those rare extreme orgasms.

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    7 days ago

    There is a male G spot that is not anus-adjacent.

    It’s right on the frenulum, right where the shaft of the penis connects to the head, at the bottom.

    If you stimulate that area with one finger very gently you can experience a full body orgasm. You just have to be patient with yourself because it is a different level of stimulation. And it definitely takes the right mindset.

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    It took well into our thirties for my wife and I to come to this realization. Fucking worthless sex education.

    Strangely, "what parts of your body do you orgasm with?” is just something we forgot to ask each other over the years.