I’m the worst at adding lol to everything and I simply can’t stop. It feels too weird lol
Lol nice, lol
Curious if you’re a millennial. I never used to use lol, then everyone I texted was using it and I felt like if I didn’t I was coming across as too serious and not friendly so I started using it, then people started to make fun of everyone who used it and say it was a millennial thing and now I’m so self conscious every single time I use it but I can’t stop
It’s definitely a millennial thing! I embrace it now because fuck it, I’m old it’s fine haha. Younger people are going to find me cringe no matter what lol
a millennial thing
I’m old
/me crumbles to dust
Yeah, those 40 are too close right now lol
Im 41 and time just wont stop going lol
Are you cringe or just a mirror of their own internalized shame, lol.
The habit runs deep. I remember everyone using “lol” constantly on ICQ and AIM lol
Lol lol
So true lol
I never really used “lol” and even when I sometimes want to, it just feels weird so I end up not to.
I’m still the same, just with smiley faces :) used to practically use them as periods at the end of a sentence :D
I had a younger guy at my job ask me if I was mad at him once because I used punctuation in a Teams message. Nah, bro, I’m just in my 40s.
Go harder and use a semicolon next time.
Pretty common. Experimentally, it seems the implicit formula many use for IM is something like
Fewer than K words + a period = probability P(deliberately curt) = 50%, where K is at least 5, and P increases logarithmically as K approaches 1.
Which is how, to someone using this formula internally, “Great.” can denote exasperation, “Thanks.” can imply strained manners, and so forth 🤷
Texting people who never experienced talking to other humans is really exhausting
I remember when I started encountering somewhat younger adults verbally spell out chat acronyms like “lmao” and “rofl.” I thought it was hilarious, but eventually realized there had been a social shift. Interactions had become online-first, and for some younger people that was basically all of it, and I wasn’t sure how I felt about that.
When I do add the ‘lol’
Sent my wife a meme the other day. She was sitting across the room from me and texted lol as her reply. I was like, no you didn’t.
LIMHWNOFE
laughed in my head, with no outward facial expression
Since text is hard to decipher emotion, I always add emojis or emoticons to let others know that I’m in a good mood and am enjoying the conversation.
I don’t really care if the other person doesn’t like it, at least I don’t seem like a sour puss the entire conversation. :-)
I’ve been told by a Gen Alpha that I give off the same vibe for using periods to end my texts.
Why so hostile?
That’s because they’re functionally illiterate
I blame Three Cuing.
Instead of “LOL” say “Hell yeah!”
“When are you coming home from work? Hell yeah!”
Pooping face
or apparently if you posting on the fedi, cause nobody on here likes to be happy >:( and takes everything super serious
Fuck those grumps ✌️
Sure lol
WHAT?
Funny, because this is what I think when someone says lol. Just a blank, expressionless face whenever I send someone something funny. That, and lmao or rofl. I highly doubt anyone has ever resorted to rolling on the floor from laughing so hard at something sent in a text.
What if I don’t want the person I am texting to laugh out loud? What if I want them to die in a ditch?
Then you write"DIAD" instead of lol
Maximum violence: “K.”
Or an emoji
Emojis are perceived differently by different people. For example:
🙂
What does it mean? Am I friendly? Or am I imagining the sound it would make if I slapped you in the face?
Or this one:
😉
Am I being ironic? Or am I trying to get in your pants?
Such mystery.
Dont get into my pants pls
You clearly are trying to fuck me. 🥴
the most difficult for me is “😅”, i just don’t get it most of the time
